We all love our friends right. They’re brilliant at helping with hen do and stag planning, keeping nerves at bay, and making you laugh.
But when it comes to your wedding photography, asking a mate to bring their camera might not be the best idea. We in the ‘biz’ call them ‘Uncle Bob’s’
Your wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime day. Every single moment matters – and each one deserves to be captured beautifully.
Over the past 16 years, I’ve learned how important those moments are, not just on the day, but for the years to come.
As a Fellowship-qualified wedding photographer, I’ve worked at some of Yorkshire’s most iconic venues like Selby Abbey, Wentbridge House, Allerton Castle, Goldsborough Hall, Rudding Park, and Hazlewood Castle.
So, let me share – kindly – why asking your best pal instead of a professional wedding photographer can end in more than a little regret.
1. Friends Aren’t Trained for the Unexpected
Things don’t always go to plan on a wedding day – and that’s okay.
But without experience, it’s hard to react quickly when the light suddenly vanishes or the rain decides to join in (and yes weather forecasts can be wrong).
Your friend might be keen, but training and experience make all the difference when things shift in a matter of seconds.
2. You Need Someone Fully Focused
Your friend is there to enjoy the day with you. They’re not there to work – and it’s a big ask. Ask yourself – given a choice – camera or erm, bar?
It’s hard to enjoy the prosecco and also concentrate on shutter speeds, aperture and all that malarky during the speeches (as we know what the priority will be).
As a York wedding photographer, I’m 100% focused on capturing your memories from start to finish.
You won’t find me distracted or on the dancefloor (unless it’s for a cracking shot of you both mid-spin!).
3. My Kit is Designed for the Job
I come to every wedding armed with professional camera bodies, fast lenses, batteries and everything else to ensure the smooth running.
Whether it’s indoor candlelight or high noon sun, I’ve got gear to handle it. Your friend may not even have a backup lens, let alone a second camera body, where as, I’ve a boot full.
Great photos start with the right equipment – but that’s just the beginning.
4. Filters Aren’t Editing
Instagram filters are fun (unless you’re a photographer and then you just sigh whenever the word Instagram and filter are used together), but editing is where your photos truly come to life.
I spend hours individually editing your gallery, making sure every image fits your style and tells your story.
My couples often say their photos “feel like them” or ‘I’ve totally captured the vibe of the day’ – because I take the time to make sure they do.
Your friend might give you a handful of snaps (urgh, I hate that word). I’ll give you a timeless, professionally finished collection.
Years from now, you’ll sit down with your children or grandchildren and flip through these memories. (After 20 years my wife and I do).
Your wedding photos should bring those emotions rushing back in vivid detail.
Because I work in a documentary wedding photography style, I capture natural, candid moments alongside those must-have portraits.
One bride from a York wedding told me, “You caught things I didn’t even know happened.” That my friends is what it’s all about. They don’t call me a photographic Ninja for now’t.
5. Feedback is Awkward When It’s a Friend
If something goes wrong – and let’s hope it doesn’t – it’s hard to bring it up with a mate.
Do you really want to say, “We’re disappointed in our wedding photos, they’re a bit ‘meh’” to someone you see at family BBQs?
When you book Martin Hillary Photography, you get clear contracts, communication, and peace of mind.
I’m fully accountable and committed to giving you nothing short of your dream wedding gallery.
6. Portraits Take More Than a Click
Not everyone feels like a natural in front of the lens – and that’s alright.
Part of my job is helping couples feel relaxed, confident, and, most importantly, like themselves on a photograph.
At most pre-shoots couples felt awkward at first.
Ten minutes in, they’re laughing, dancing, and beaming. That’s the kind of magic I aim for.
7. Experience Makes a Massive Difference
Over the years, I’ve faced everything from missing registrars to torn dresses and toddler tantrums (including puked on bridesmaids).
I’ve learned to work calmly, quietly, and efficiently, whatever the day throws at me.
You deserve someone who knows how to read a room, find the best light, and stay one step ahead.
Your friend might be keen, but I bring 16 years of experience and a genuine love for what I do.
(I don’t clean up puke though – 3 year old flowergirl and a full tube of Paprika Pringles is not a good combo).
8. You Deserve to Enjoy Every Second
On your wedding day, your job is to live in the moment – not worry if the photos will turn out. (Trust me they will).
By trusting a Yorkshire-based professional wedding photographer (me), you can fully relax and enjoy spending time with the people you love.
Of course, your friend means well. But this is your wedding day. You deserve more than well-meaning.
You deserve someone who can give you their full attention, expertise, and creativity from beginning to end.
If you’re getting married in York, Leeds, or Pontract, and want photographs that tell your love story in all its real, joyful beauty – let’s talk.
At Martin Hillary Photography, I don’t just take pictures. I craft a narrative that lasts a lifetime.
